Saturday, November 9, 2013

An Honor to Share

Ok, forgive me, I'm not immediately getting to the second portion of my last post... the part that is my "big news."

I will, but I wanted to share some other very exciting news... I was chosen/asked to be featured in the Myasthenia Gravis Foundation of Illinois newsletter! I feel blessed to be able to share my story and recognized as someone who is an inspiration to others. I really cannot take credit. I send all of the glory up to God and praise Him for getting me through this! I thank Him for giving me the gift to write and to inspire; and if at any point I've done anything good intentionally or unintentionally for anyone, please thank God for I am only a vessel for Him to shine through.

The newsletter has not been posted to the MGF of IL site yet to link to so I am including below my write up. They titled it "If My Life Were a Building".

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29 years ago I was brought into this world. My parents had high hopes for their very healthy, active, little girl. Growing up with a type A personality, I had high goals for myself as well. I had it all planned out, after graduating college with honors I would travel the country as an event planner and eventually open my own company.

If my life were a building, just as it was getting built higher and higher, in 2008 story by story, the building started to be taken down. As the economy went down, so did my company and the start of my career. The choice was made to move to Texas which had a better economy, in 2009, but along with more jobs came more allergies. Allergies turned into double pneumonia, twice, in 2010 and a severe reaction to Levaquin making me temporarily unable to walk. Then started a 2.5 year battle of trying to figure out why I couldn’t regain my health.

Each new symptom brought a new prescription and each new prescription brought a new symptom. Medication seemed to make me worse rather than better. Weakness, fatigue, pain, trouble swallowing, trouble breathing, trouble seeing, trouble digesting, feeling like I would faint, heart irregularities, brain fog... there are too many symptoms to go through them all. More times than I could count I was told it's "just anxiety." I decided, being overseen by a doctor, that I would stop all medication and try things the natural way. I was improving... until a serious infection that I didn't think I could beat in February 2012, in which I was put on Bactrim double dose. Shortly after taking it, my body started to shut down. As my breathing declined, the ability to walk was lost, I felt I was speaking my last words and taking my last breaths. The ER sent me home telling me to continue the medication saying it's "just anxiety." If I listened I could have died, but instead I listened to my body. I was soon after admitted by the doctor who prescribed it, but still told it was just a reaction to the medication that would go away with time. After a week in the hospital, I was then sent to a rehab hospital to learn how to walk again. It never went away like they said, in fact it got worse.

Following up with specialists as I was told to, my neurologist did seem to know what was going on, two words I never heard before, so I kind of ignored them until the test results would come in. July 11, 2012, the day I will never forget. "You have Myasthenia Gravis... most people can live a fairly normal life but you’ll have to take medication every day." Wait a minute, a "fairly" normal life? Knock some more levels off that building I was constructing. My body continued to negatively react to medications and initially responded poorly to Mestinon. Unable to get in with the one MG specialist in town, I was at a stand still. Then after a weekend in the hot, Texas sun in October, I landed in the hospital again. This time they gave me IVIG and Prednisone. I could not tolerate the side effects from Prednisone and begged them every day to stop it; eventually I was weaned off. IVIG caused side effects as well, and didn't seem to help. Again, I was promised I would improve over time. After 6 weeks combined in a hospital and rehab hospital, I was barely any better.

That is when I decided I should probably get this thymectomy they talk of. Since Chicago has more healthcare options and my parents could take care of me through recovery, I opted to return to Chicago in January of this year. I again faced the questioning of if it is "just anxiety". Eventually, I went in for plasmapheresis in March of this year, which seemed to help, and days later in April had a robotic thymectomy. Once again I had high hopes, but another level of the building came down. My breathing was at it's worst and I insisted something was wrong but told it was just the effects of surgery. After being sent home, I returned to the ER to hear what I feared "You have a pulmonary embolism." With multiple clots in both lungs, I thought my life was over for a third time now.

Right now I am finishing up treatment for my PE, and in the process I have been diagnosed with something else called POTS- Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome. It is a type of dysautonomia which affects just about everything- heart rate, blood pressure, digestion, respiratory, temperature, so on and so forth. So now I have one illness that affects the voluntary parts of my body and one that also affects involuntary. Many medications for POTS are on the “be cautious with” list for MG. My treatment is pretty much at a standstill as my body has become extremely sensitive to everything I put in it. I use a wheel chair for anything more than a short walk and there are days I feel like a prisoner in my own body. I have lost friends and even family members in the mist of all of this. More levels removed from the building.

With all that loss, it brings me down to the very bottom if my life were a building. By everything I just said, you would think I'm a very negative person and there is nowhere to go from here. However, oddly enough, right before my MG diagnosis, I came to know God, and with Him I have gained so much more than all of my losses combined. He transformed me into a positive person, and taught me to value every level of that building that could so easily and quickly be taken away. Though I am physically weak, I am spiritually strong. The building I was constructing no longer stands, but I know God is helping me build a new one now, a much better, taller, stronger one. My life is nothing like it used to be, but rather than thinking of myself as disabled, I like to think of myself as enabled…

My wheel chair is an extension of myself and I feel blessed to have it so I can get out including attending MG support groups and MG walks even if I can’t physically walk. When my legs don’t work, I use my arms and my eyes to connect with others over Facebook support groups or to write. When my arms and eyes don’t work either, I rest, listen to music and pray, waiting for inspiration for the next thing to write. In January, I started a blog with the purpose of one place family and friends could go to stay informed while I’m in and out of the hospital. Astonishingly, my blog took off, now having over 11,000 views, and I also started a second one. I’ve always had a passion for writing but never had the time. In addition, I design t-shirts and other items to bring awareness and any profit I’ve made I’ve donated to the MG community. Now I can do what I love while bringing awareness to a very rare disease. My new goal is to make Myasthenia Gravis a household name… so that one day none of us ever have to hear “but you look fine” or “it’s just anxiety” being sent home with our lives at risk as we struggle to breathe. At the same time, I do hope remission is in my future… and I will never forget what my neurologist told me when she first diagnosed me… “Miracles do happen.” 
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